Paul
Alva Gosnell, age 71, of Fernandina Beach, Fla., gently passed away
in the arms of his loving wife, Valerie, on Feb. 21, 2019, after
a near 20-year fight with non-hodgkins lymphoma. His son Timothy
and daughter Kelly were by his side during his last weeks and shared
their special thoughts and memories with him.
Paul
was born in Baltimore, Md., and was an avid Baltimore Orioles fan
his entire life. In high school, he was an outstanding baseball
player and was recruited by the Pittsburgh Pirates. At the same
time, he was awarded an appointment to the United States Air Force
Academy in Colorado. With many mixed feelings, Paul chose to enter
the Academy Class of 1968.
While
at the Academy, he met his future wife, Valerie Ann Phillips. Valerie's
"Air Force brat" experience growing up made her a natural
to join with Paul in his career. Paul and Valerie married at the
Academy Chapel on Dec. 28, 1968, and had recently celebrated their
50th wedding anniversary.
During
his Air Force career, Paul and Valerie were stationed in Colorado,
Texas, England, Hawaii, Okinawa, Japan and California, and traveled
to the Caribbean, Italy, Greece, Spain, France, Austria, Germany,
Belgium, and Holland.
Paul
earned a master's degree in systems management and a master's degree
in human development counseling. His career included a few years
in the intelligence service, including a year in Vietnam. He then
entered pilot training and became an F-4, O-2 and finally an F-15
pilot.
His
service awards include: Bronze Star Medal, Meritorious Service Medal
with three oak leaf clusters, Air Force Commendation Medal with
two oak leaf clusters, Air Force Outstanding Unit Award, Air Force
Organizational Excellence Award, Combat Readiness Award, National
Defense Medal, Vietnam Service Medal with Four Bronze Stars, Republic
of Vietnam Gallantry Cross with Palm, and the Republic of Vietnam
Campaign Medal.
After
leaving the Air Force in 1991, Paul worked in management services
with ServiceMaster for 10 years. Despite his many health issues,
they never kept him from travel, golf, church commitments, master
gardening, or living life to the fullest. Paul was truly a man of
God. He was a founding member of the Knights of Columbus Council
in his parish, an altar server, parish money counter, Eucharistic
Minister, and countless other ministries which were quietly and
humbly rendered. Paul was a kind and gentle soul who never met a
stranger.
Paul
leaves behind his most precious wife, Valerie; their son, Col. Timothy
(Mairead) Gosnell of San Antonio, Texas; their daughter, Kelly (Colonel
Mike) Shea of Burke, Va.; grandchildren Katelynn and Connor Shea
and Keira and Kylie Gosnell; mother-in-law Peg Phillips of Parker,
Colo.; brother Charles (Barbara) Gosnell of Glen Burnie, Md.; sister
Nancy (Harvey) Brock of Dayton, Ohio; pre-deceased brother-in-law
Richard (Meg) Phillips; brother-in-law Bruce (Monica) Phillips;
brother-in law Brian Phillips; brother-in-law Chris (Cathy) Phillips;
sister-in-law Les Phillips; sister-in-law Denise (Chet) Elder; sister-in-law
Jenni (Scott) Peavy; and 19 nieces and nephews.
A vigil
and visitation was held on March 1, 2019, at Fernandina Beach, Fla.,
with a funeral mass on March 2, 2019. Paul was interred at the Air
Force Academy on Monday, July 1st at 10 a.m. (Bud
Templin, classmate and career-long friend)
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